This is what it looks like to Compete Without Contempt.
When @usufootball linebacker @harrison_taggs suffered a frightening injury against Utah, rivalries suddenly didnโt matter.
@byufootball head coach Kalani Sitake shared how his team immediately prayed for Harrison.
@utahutes head coach Morgan Scalley opened his postgame press conference not by talking about his teamโs victory but by talking about Harrison and expressing his concern and prayers for him.
Harrison had transferred from BYU. He was playing against Utah.
But both coaches saw something more important than a rivalry.
They saw a person.
We can compete fiercely. We can want to win. We can give everything we have to beat the person across from us.
But we never have to hate them to do it.
Thatโs Compete Without Contempt.
Great example, coaches.
Eyes up. Do the work.
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Sep 23
Many members of E4A believe in a higher power. We wanted to share this powerful insight from Navy linebacker Marcus Bleazard about faith, service and identity.
Marcus shared that the biggest change that came from serving othersโand serving Jesus Christโfor two years wasnโt physical or athletic. It was identity.
No longer was his identity tied to how a practice went or how a game went as a football player. His identity became rooted in his relationship with Jesus Christ.
Itโs remarkable what happens when someone loses themselves in the service of others. Somehow, it strengthens every other part of life.
Your willingness to go and lift others never ceases to inspire usโand itโs a beautiful example of Eyes Up. Do the Work. ๐
Feb 10
Trust is built one decision at a time.
Marcus Bleazard, linebacker for the Navy Midshipmen football, shared how football and the military taught him something powerful:
โฐ Be punctual
๐ง Donโt negotiate with yourself
๐ Do what you said you would do
When you listen to that inner voice and follow throughโshowing up on time, sticking to the plan, getting the repsโyou begin to trust yourself.
And before others trust you in big moments, you have to trust yourself in the small ones.
Consistency builds confidence.
Confidence builds momentum.
Momentum leads to success.
๐๏ธ From Episode 157 of the Especially for Athletes podcast.
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Jan 14
Recently, we had the opportunity to visit with the Utah Tech Blaze Dance Team, last yearโs national champions. Their theme this year is simple but powerful:
Believe to Become.
As we visited with them, we shared a message that we feel applies far beyond a dance floor.
1. Becoming Is Different Than Accomplishing
Accomplishments are visible.
Becoming is internal.
Sports give us trophies, banners, rings, and recognition. But what they really offer us is something much deeperโcharacter, discipline, resilience, humility, love for teammates, and the ability to work through adversity.
Accomplishments fade.
Who we become remains.
The greatest gift athletics give us isnโt what we achieveโitโs who we are shaping ourselves into through the process.
2. Humility Fuels Becoming
If we truly want to become all that weโre capable of becoming, we must choose humility over pride.
Becoming requires:
โข Being coachable
โข Welcoming feedback
โข Listening instead of defending
โข Responding instead of reacting
When we are humble and responsive to those who love us enough to correct us, stretch us, and teach us, we always become something more than we would have become on our own.
Pride resists growth.
Humility accelerates it.
3. Get Lost Helping Others Become
The greatest teams arenโt made up of individuals obsessed with their own performance. Theyโre made up of teammates with their eyes upโlooking for who needs encouragement, who needs help, who needs belief.
When we lose ourselves helping others become their best selves, something powerful happens:
We become better too.
Teams thrive when:
โข Teammates lift each other
โข Correction is rooted in love
โข Success is shared
โข Struggles are carried together
Thatโs the kind of culture that sustains championships. We wish the blaze the best of luck as they go onto nationals.
Feb 12
It was awesome to have BYU cheerleaders, Ammon Montenegro and Aislee Meacham on our podcast this week. Check out the whole podcast. It was incredible. Hereโs a few highlights.
Failure doesnโt define youโit refines you. ๐ช
And true competition doesnโt require hateโit requires heart. โค๏ธ
In this weekโs Especially for Athletes podcast, BYU cheerleaders Aislee Meacham and Ammon Montenegro share powerful insights on what it really means to competeโwith love, gratitude, and resilience.
Their message is a perfect reminder heading into rivalry week:
๐ Failure canโt change your worth.
๐ Rivalry shouldnโt erase your respect.
๐ Compete hardโbut always Compete Without Contempt.
๐๏ธ Full episode out now!
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Oct 22
โBe who you needed when you were younger.โ ๐
When we finished recording with Olympic swimmer Rhyan White, she took us to her bathroom mirror. Written there was this saying:
โBe who you needed when you were younger.โ
This is an Olympian who races on the worldโs biggest stageโฆ and the reminder she looks at every day isnโt about medalsโitโs about people. ๐ฅ
Rhyan told us about a younger teammate who seemed alone. Instead of just keeping another MVP towel, she gave it to her. To Rhyan, it felt small.
To that younger girl, it meant everything.
Thatโs what it looks like to use the sportlight:
๐
Seniors โ Be to the freshmen who you wish you had.
๐ Captains โ Build up instead of haze.
โค๏ธ Parents & coaches โ Be the adult you needed when you were a teen.
Most of us didnโt need more pressure.
We needed someone who saw us, believed in us, and stayed.
Who did you need when you were younger?
Go be that person for someone today. ๐
#BeWhoYouNeeded #RhyanWhite #Sportlight #EyesUpDoTheWork #EspeciallyForAthletes SeekToBlessNotToImpress AthleteLeadership YouthSports
Dec 30
Every week we sit down with athletes, coaches, and people like SUU gymnast, @kenn.mcg who have been where your kid is right now, and we ask them the questions nobody asks at the podium.
Not the highlight reel. The part where they were in over their head and had to figure out who they were going to be about it.
176 episodes and counting
Comment E4A to get the link!
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Sep 29
๐ง We train the body. We train the skills. Why wouldnโt we train the mind?
@drbradenbrown Associate Athletic Director of Mental Health for BYU Athletics, makes a powerful comparison in our newest Especially for Athletes podcast.
Athletes work with strength and conditioning coaches to become bigger, faster, and stronger. They work with nutrition professionals to fuel their bodies. They work with position coaches to develop the skills needed to perform.
So why would we expect them to figure out the mental side of performance on their own?
Managing emotions. Handling pressure. Responding to failure. Staying composed when the game is on the line.
Those are skillsโand skills can be developed.
As Dr. Brown explains, working with someone who can help develop those mental skills may ultimately be one of the things that makes the difference in performance.
๐๏ธ Our full conversation with Dr. Braden Brown drops later this week on the Especially for Athletes Podcast. You wonโt want to miss this one.
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Aug 18
Soon to be the likely first pick in the NBA Draft AJ Dybantsa.
#EyesUpDotheWork
Apr 8
Another GREAT meeting today. 7am meeting with 400 athletes, coaches and administration at @olympus_high_official
@olympushighcheer @olymbb @olytitansfb @olympuswomenssoccer @olywomenstennis @olympustitanswimming
Oct 2
We are so excited to start visiting our schools for the 2026-27 year!
Our favorite part of doing this is getting to rub shoulders with these amazing young athletes who are out there everyday using their Sportlight for good, with their eyes up doing the work.
Thank you to our teams at Alta and Weber High Schools for having us this week!
Help us bring E4A to your school or organization! Comment Eyes Up to get on the schedule ๐ช
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Sep 3
Is greatness boring? ๐ค
What do you think? ๐
#eyesupdothework #sportlight #athletemindset #e4a mondaymotivation
Sep 7
The kid across the line and the teammate fighting you for the same spot are the two people making you better.
Contempt turns both of them into something to beat instead of something to push you to be your best.
Respect them and you both find another gear. Thatโs how a whole roster comes up.
Your Sportlight isnโt the depth chart or the scoreboard; itโs whether the person competing against you got better because you were there.
Eyes Up, Do the Work!
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Sep 8
One of the most dangerous goals in life is simply trying to โbe the best.โ
Because if someone else is better, you may get discouraged.
And if you finally become the best in your environment, you may stop growing.
But becoming YOUR best?
That journey never ends.
Thatโs why this moment from Ewa Swoboda is so powerful.
She didnโt win the race.
But she achieved something she had never done before. She became better than she used to be.
Too many people allow comparison to steal the joy of growth.
Your life was never meant to be a constant competition with everyone around you. The goal is progress.
Growth. Improvement. Becoming.
Donโt just chase being the best.
Chase becoming your best.
#EspeciallyForAthletes #E4A #WinTheHour #Resilience #GrowthMindset
Jun 3
Loved visiting the amazing athletes, parents and coaches at @shsgrizzlies and @skyviewbobcats High schools this week!
I get to walk into a gym full of athletes and talk for forty five minutes. People assume that is the job. It is not.
The job is what comes after, and I get to see all of it. We stay involved with the leadership councils, and my phone does not stop the rest of the year.
A coach telling me what a junior did for a kid who was about to quit. A parent describing a car ride home that went different than it used to. Hundreds of these, all year, about moments nobody filmed and nobody clapped for.
That is the part I would show you if I could.
Your Sportlight was never the forty five minutes in the gym, it is what your school looks like in February, and your town feels that long before anybody thinks to name it.
Eyes Up. Do the Work!
Know a coach who should have us in their gym? Send them this.
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Sep 17
๐๏ธ Podcast Spotlight:
Ashley Matern โ The Power of Not Giving Up
She suffered a brutal injury: cracked tibia. Torn ligaments. Her 2023 season ended. Most thought her career had, too.
But on Episode #154 of the Especially for Athletes Podcast, we meet Ashley Maternโnow the 2024 U.S. Tumbling Champion. Her comeback story is more than inspiring, itโs unforgettable.
โDonโt close the door on yourself. If thereโs still gas in the tank, make someone else close the doorโyou donโt shut it on yourself.โ
๐ง In This Episode:
โข How Ashley overcame years of setbacks
โข What it takes to return after a career-threatening injury
โข The mindset of an elite athlete when others doubt you
โข Why your best moment might still be ahead
๐ Highlight Moment:
โThe joy after the absolute antithesis of joy.โ โ a commentator, watching Ashley celebrate with her coach post-victory
Nov 25
Join Brandon Doman (former San Francisco 49er and BYU QB & Coach), Justin Miller (former SUU QB) and E4A`s coach Dustin Smith, for a deep and insightful conversation on this week`s Especially for Athletes Podcast episode.
With over 30 years of combined coaching experience, Coach Doman and Coach Smith share lessons learned from working with top-tier athletes and leaders.
This is a must-listen for any parent or coach of an athlete dreaming of playing at the high school, collegiate, or professional level, and as always is more about life than about sports.
May 14
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